Dear Meghan~missing you

Dear Meghan,

This afternoon, I just learned in person from Travis K that you were in a car accident and died.  I was making copies of the secrets from Lauren Robinson work of art “The Web of Secrets 2012” when Travis approached me.  He didn’t know what I was coping.  As soon as he told me I got goosebumps and looked down at the copier.  Meghan you are gone and I will never see or talk to you again.  We were both writing majors.  We shared story ideas, work-shopped story lines and enjoyed discussing art.  I wonder if one of the secrets I copied may have been yours…

I know you treasured life and you touched the lives of many.  You have been released from the earth to a much better place and even get wings to boot.  I am happy for you, but feel loss as expected.  Bless your surviving family.  God has a plan for you in heaven and I am certain it involves endless ink in a gold pen and sheets of the finest grade paper stock imaginable.

Rest in peace my friend,

Pattie

the gratification

Dear John~confusing who?

Letters he nevers learn from

Dear John,

Tesla and I were happy she spent the night last night.  That was so much better than just getting two hours together.  She naturally complained for a little, but I finally got across to her that we will just have to enjoy the time we get.  One overnight wasn’t enough, she wanted more.  It’s  hard to explain to Tesla why she has to live with mostly you (and the gang) when she wants to live with me.  Telling her a judge decided means nada to Tesla.  I might as well tell her the Wizard of Oz decided.

Enjoy your time with Tesla and stop being so damn rigid with your ridiculous, unrealistic rules and schedule.  Your world revolves around yourself.  It’s so obvious, yet you don’t see it.  I know you better than you know yourself.  I even understand why you are the way you are.  I get why you filed for divorce….and don’t start with the cheap bags of pot you bought for me or the diet pills I was taking back in 2008.  Neither are your reason for filing for divorce.  You know it.  I know it and a select number of people know it.  Obviously Heather doesn’t know or doesn’t get it yet.  It all depends on how honest you were with her about the dissolving of our relationship.

So back to this morning and Tesla, what was the big deal about Tesla and I doing her homework before school?  It wasn’t like she asked if I could come inside my home and help do it.  She was fine with bringing it out to the car and writing on a book or the hood of my car.  You and I both know it is very simple homework.  Well, I assume you know but Tesla does say it’s mostly Heather who does homework with her.  We could have done the homework and I would have been on my way.  Tesla would have her homework done with plenty of time before the bus came to spend with you if you so wished.  I saw Heather’s vehicle in the drive so I suppose she could have even had time with Tesla.

Sadly, Tesla had to come outside in tears because you wouldn’t let her do her homework away from the island in the kitchen.  I was confused.  Why can’t she do her homework with me?  What is the big fucking deal this time?  You take such pleasure in telling me what I can and can’t do with my child just because a judge decided that Tesla should continue living in our house.  You thrive on it I swear.  Thank God the stupid signing for Tesla bullshit has ceased.  I never did hear from my lawyer that your lawyer, or even Heather’s lawyer, sent him a damn thing.

That’s ok, eventually you’ll hear from my lawyer.

~P.

Parque de Pinchot

Cuando era niña me gustaba ir a la escuela. En la escuela primaria mi profesora favorita fue la Senora Holtzapple. Compartimos el mismo cumpleaños, el 9 de octubre. Le dí un cactus como un regalo.
En el verano mis amigos y yo montaba nuestras bicicletas y pasó nadando en el Parque de Pinchot. Hemos jugado etiqueta y escuchar nuestras cintas de cassette.
Mi programa de televisión favorito era The Dukes of Hazzard porque yo estaba enamorada de John Sneider. Fue el actor quien jugó Bo Duke y era muy guapo.

Mi grupo favorito de música como un niño fue Sha-na-na. Tuvieron una música y comedia mostrar.
Cuando no me sentía bien, que me sale en la cama. Mi madre me traería la medicina.

My Legs are Hungry Too

The noise I can hear coming from my stomach can only described as growling.  The gurgley grumbling belly aching noise that is accompanied by pain that almost causes you to laugh at your body for being impatient.

Often I’ve told Tesla I don’t know where she puts all that she eats.  Or, I’ll ask her if she filled her legs up too?  One day Tesla’s stomach was growling and I heard it.  She said her “leg was hungry” and I thought that was so cute.

My leg is so hungry it’s ready to pop off and make something in the kitchen its self.

Focus on the food.

~P.

Identity Theft

 

 

What is Identity Theft?  Why is it a serious problem?  How can it be prevented?

Identity theft has become a huge problem for consumers.  With just the right amount of information, a theft can take found it and ruin the life and credit of person.  This paper will answer what ID theft is, why it is serious to consumers and how to avoid having your life and credit ruined by a thief.

The first two questions are easy to define and most people already know the definition and answer.  Identity Theft is when a person or persons use your information without your permission to commit fraud or other crimes.  This is serious because once enough information is gathered by that person it will be used to make purchases or agreements in your name.  This can ruin your credit for a lengthy amount of time and even permanently.  Mistakes on credit reports happen often and the agencies only report information they are given, even if this information is in errors. (Sovern 233, 241)

Preventing the theft of your identity is the key to success.  There are specific steps a person can take at home, at office, at school and in daily life.  Many examples are so simple it seems like common sense.  For those people who have had their identity stolen, they now carefully track their credit records.

Suggestions for in an office or school setting:

  • Remove all materials printed from the copier and fax machine.  Remember the originals.
  • Lock your computer screen, file cabinets and desk drawers when leaving your office/dorm.
  • Never let documents out on your desk.
  • Shred all sensitive documents prior to disposable.
  • Change your passwords often. (Collins 218-219)

Remember, the documents in your home, car, wallet and purse also need protected from theft.  Simple steps in everyday life will help insure the safety of your identity and keep your credit score at a high number.

  • Check your credit report.  The prominent reporting agencies are Equifax, TransUnion and Experian.  Make certain they are accurate.
  • Review your monthly statements for all bills and loans.  Report any discrepancies immediately.
  • Avoid hand-written checks.
  • Know which accounts have automatic ID protection coverage.    (Karp)

If you discover you have become a victim of identity theft take the following steps to stop the misuse of your information.  The sooner you stop the theft process the easier it will be to regain your identity and repair any damage to your credit report.

  • Report the theft to law enforcement.
  • Notify all credit reporting agencies.
  • Notify companies of any charges you did not make.
  • Free Help is available if you get overwhelmed.  (ITRC.org)

The easiest way to keep from becoming a victim of identity theft is to keep all personal information, especially social security numbers private.  The less information that is revealed, the less chance a thief has to take over your identity.  Sharing information with anyone, even family and friends, can lead to credit and financial difficulties for you in the future.

 

 

Annotated List of Works Cited

Collins, Judith. “Preventing Identity Theft in your Business.” Appendix H. 2005. Print.  This         scholarly journal was written my Judith Collins.  Collins is an expert in identity theft and     protecting businesses from having employee or client’s identities stolen.  The intended purpose of this information is for any business to make simple guidelines and rules for           employees to follow to insure information is secure.  This journal was published by             Wiley-Blackwell Publishing and is listed in the Journal of Consumer Affairs.  The information is relevant to my research paper and I find it to have little bias.  The          information is also current and applicable to my paper.

Karp, Gregory. “Protect yourself from identity theft for free.” The Morning Call. 1 July 2007. Web. 21 March 2012.  This scholarly journal article was written by a personal finance writer for the Tribune Company newspaper in Allentown, PA.  The intended purpose is to explain how the use of free credit check offers can alert a consumer that their identity may have been stolen.  There does not seem to be much bias but rather straight-forward information that can be used to confirm their credit is in order.  Also included are the steps to take if you discover you are a victim of identity theft and transactions that are most likely to cause someone to become a victim. This article was carried by The Chicago Tribune in the business section on the Internet.  It is timely and relevant to my topic of preventing identity theft. In conclusion, I find this to be a reliable source.

Sovern, Jeff. “Stopping Identity Theft.” The Journal of Consumer Affairs, Vol. 38, No. 2.  2004. Web. 28 March 2012.  This scholarly journal article was written by a professor of law at      St. John’s University School of Law in NY.  The intended purpose is to inform         consumers about identity theft and how to avoid becoming a victim to this type of theft.        There is some bias as the author plays on the reader’s fear of financial loss by telling how his own identity had been stolen. The article was adapted from a book and published by         an accredited journal and is copyrighted by the American Council on Consumer Interests.      It is also timely information that is relevant to my topic of identity theft and The Journal          of Consumer Affairs is refereed on Ulrich’s entry. In conclusion, this is a reliable source           of information.

“My Wallet, Purse or PDA was Lost or Stolen. Now What?” Working to Resolve Identity Theft. Identity Theft Resource Center. 9 October 2009. Web. 2 April 2012.  This scholarly journal article was found on non-profit organization website that is accredited by the Better Business Bureau and The Attorney General, William H. Ryan Jr.  The contributing authors are not listed on the website.  The non-profit website, ITRC, offers countless links on identity theft.  These links include but are not limited to: Home page: Working to resolve identity theft, Data Breaches, Victim Resources, Consumer Resources, State & Local Resources and Scams & Consumer Alerts.  Each heading link contains more links of specific topics falling under it.  Also listed are links to inform consumers how to be safe with the use of a Smart Phone.  The Smart Phone information link was the first I read any research touching on protecting one’s identity from theft by cellular phone.  The amount of useful information on this website is endless and relevant to my topic. This is a timely source created for consumers to protect themselves from identity theft.   In conclusion, this non-profit website is a reliable source.

Tesla turns 6

Tesla had a great 6th birthday!  It was great to have all my kidlings together.  The weather wasn’t too bad….a little chilly.  😉   Thanks to all who helped make the day special!   ~P.

 

Wanted her hair curled for the party....and make up. 😉

 

Hater

Things I’ve learned.

1. Heather thinks I’m ugly.  At least that’s what she said.  If she was smart she would have told her friends I was beautiful but John only wanted her.

2.  John likes very personal gifts from Heather’s friends.  And his birthday is almost here again!

3.  John and Heather were announcing they plan on getting married this year.  Wait…where’s my damn divorce first?

4.  John is paying for Heather reverse her tubes so they can have a son.  Hello…fairy tale!

5.  No one has been paying the mortgage.  Shocking.

I can’t even make this stuff up.

~P.

 

Dear Heather ~4:45 PM

 

Dear Heather,

   Where the hell were you at 4:45?  You had to have left my house with my daughter intentionally.  That or you just didn’t know because John is so busy working he can’t even take time to know where you are going with our child, nor when you will be bringing her back.

    How is it that you have my child while my husband is out of town working.  Not only does Tesla miss spending time with me, she misses soccer or any damn other thing Tesla and I wanted to do.  We would not have chosen to run around where ever you have to go with your children.

     Not answering the phone when I call or text is just ignorant.  John doesn’t know what’s going on. He didn’t know you were leaving with Tesla.  And, it doesn’t surprise him that you don’t answer his call either. 

WTH?  How do I know you didn’t kidnap my child?  I could call the cops and be justified, but I won’t do that to my daughter.  It worries me that you are caring for my child.  This is not right. 

Where is Tesla?

~P.

I didn’t check the mail recently

Catching up with the wagon

Here’s why….

I can't imagine the letters at the Post Office are good news.

Dear Wells Fargo…guess  you’re upset about the mortgage and want to take the house.  I don’t blame ya’ll.  I rode on out of there years ago…

with no looking back.

Will Heather use her school loans to pay the mortgage again?  Will John sell more of our martial goods?  What has he sold?  (other than pretty  much everything Heather had)

I saw Heather’s house is up for rent!  Maybe they will move there…

Stay tuned,

~P.

~P.