It’s Easter or just another Sunday

I can’t get into holidays anymore.  Whether is cooking a huge meal, buying over-priced gifts, or just all gathering in one house.  The holiday gatherings for my family have been on the edge of “crash and burn” for several years now.  My mom seems to wind up in the hospital every other holiday and a hospital is no place to celebrate the holidays.  Not for my mom, or anyone else.  I called yesterday to talk to my mom and maybe find out what the heck is going on for today.  My father answered and I was tempted to just hang up but I really wanted to talk to mom.  I asked for her and my father said, “She’s sleeping and don’t call here if you can’t keep from swearing and yelling at me.”  I responded with, “I’m not swearing or anything.” and he hung up on me.  What a dad.  Just makes me all warm and fuzzy inside.  Maybe if you didn’t stab me in the back every chance you have, I wouldn’t have to speak up and be all honest to your face.

Dale called my parents house last night around 8:30 pm.  My dad chatted with Dale about the computer he recently bought at Dale’s shop.  When Dale asked about my mom, dad said she was sleeping and had a rough day.  I had called around 1:30 pm and ever heard back so I’m guessing mom never got the message I called.  Dale said he would call tomorrow to wish her a Happy Easter.  My dad said, “Tell Pattie not to call here.  I’m pissed off at her.”

Well news flash dear old Dad:  You PISS me off DAILY!  You are selfish and care more about you, you, you than anyone else, including your wife, children and grandchildren.

SO Happy Easter Walty, GO SUCK A ROTTEN EGG!

~P.

 

 

Easter Sunday~It wasn’t Jesus’ drama.

I signed the stupid paper stating John was allowing me to have Tesla from 4 PM on Easter Sunday until soccer tonight.  What I don’t understand is why Tesla couldn’t wear her Easter dress for pictures with Dale and I and then change clothes afterwards.  Nope, Heather said to “go buy your own dress for Tesla!”

The dress was a hand-me-down from one of Heather’s kids.  You know, the kids that are not to talk to me but still do and I have no control over it.

So, instead of just sharing the dress on Tesla’s behalf with everyone on Easter, Heather dressed Tesla in this.  Rabbit tail and all.

John said I have to talk to Heather about clothes.  No matter who I must talk to, why would you put that on Tesla and rubber band them to stay up?  TT wears a size 8….not 16-18.   I was so pissed…. Heather doesn’t want to write me a letter (unless maybe her lawyers do it for her) and doesn’t want a taped meeting.  Here is her message to me on John’s cell.  “when u would like to have a 2 way conversation.  u may call me on the home phone.  heather.”  What home phone Heather?  When I lived there it was 717-244-4949.  Do you consider the office number your home number now?  I don’t want to talk to you Heather, I want John to handle the things that have to do with Tesla.

Somedays…

~P.