What is scheduled control?
When a person (A) in power feels he or she must strictly schedule another persons (B) day. The amount of power held by A varies, depending on the relationship held with B.
For Example:
1. John (A) has a large amount of power over Tesla (B) because A is the father of B and has a court order that A believes empowers him to:
a. Rigidly set B a schedule that allows very small amounts of personal time for B to make a choice in how her time is spent.
b. Making a schedule for B that is so vague it is clear A is exercising coercive power to avoid allowing B the opportunity to make a choice in how her time is spent.
2. John (A) has a large amount of power over Pattie (C) because A is the husband of C and B is the daughter of A and C.
a. Majority of attempts by C to contact A results in continual avoidance of answering the text messages, email and phone calls.
b. A regularly asserts power over B and C by changing the schedule of B at a moments notice to cause distress to C.
3. Pattie (C) will in time, have a large amount of power over C because eventually A is going to fuck up so bad that B will be disgusted by his pathetic attempt to control her schedule.
a. Result hypothesis: A and C= Happy B=Sad
THAT is what scheduled control is!
~P.
P.S. Yes, I wrote all that myself. A little bit of psych, a little bit of human communication and a large dose of controlling personalities. Maybe “scheduled control” will become a new psychology term. I didn’t bother to look if it might be one already. 🙂
#3 should say c will have a large amount power over A. (not c which is you) because eventually A is eventually……….
You know all of this is going to confuse A and D (ditzy dingbat Heather) so much……I love to watch the fall of A&H and am so happy that C and I are friends…….lets figure out who “I” is LOL
sorry I meant to say confuse A&D.