How I still feel
According to the wise one who dictates when I may see Tesla, I was informed he is “more than lenient” with Tesla’s visits. Does he mean lenient to me….or to Tess? Either way, I don’t see much leniency for either. I think John is permanently stuck in the “Prison Guard Mentality” for life.
Definition of LENIENT Adj.
1: exerting a soothing or easing influence : relieving pain or stress
2: of mild and tolerant disposition; especially: indulgent
— le·nient·lyadverb
lenient [ˈliːnɪənt]
adj
1. showing or characterized by mercy or tolerance
Examples of LENIENT
- a teacher who is lenient with students who have misbehaved
- Many people felt that the punishment was too lenient.
- By giving one more person—the executive—the power to reduce (but not to increase) punishments, our constitutions (both Federal and state) seem to be sending an important message: that in a world in which errors are inevitable, it is better to err on the side of overly lenient, rather than overly harsh, punishment. —Alan M. Dershowitz, New York Times Book Review, 16 July 1989
Does John understand the meaning of lenient?
I usually get notice at the last moment on when I can see Tesla. Then there are days when I think I will see her and he changes her schedule to suit his. I believe a set day that Tesla and I know John will be “lenient” with on a weekly basis would be great!
The whining about my Facebook status and blog content can stop, oh wise one. Even better, just co-operate in sharing Tesla more equally and I won’t have a reason to bitch. Does he even get sharing?
He does understand Bitterman though.
~P.
girlboxer1970 
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