Is there anyone out there that doesn’t dream? I think everyone dreams but doesn’t necessarily remember any of them. I have reoccurring dreams, dreams where I am falling and where I fly (Fav #1) Also reoccurring themes are the hubby John in a wide range of situations. (Worst #1) Being chased or followed. Physical attack or peril. Sex, sometimes with spontaneous orgasms (Fav #2…this is the truth, I swear) Arguing with my dad. (Worst #2)
Sometimes I don’t know the people in my dreams. Or maybe I just don’t know them yet. Interesting thought. I love the flying dreams. I just spread my arms and fly around, usually at my parents, or at the pavilion below. When I was younger I flew around my grandparents farm. I lived there as an adult for about two years. I had a dream about flying around the yard and around the barn. I would swoop under and above the electric and phone lines. If only I could make that come true! Imagine all the gas money I would save!!
Wet dreams are very interesting to me. It’s amazing how powerful the mind is. Sometimes I have an orgasm and the dream isn’t even sexual. Weird huh? Anyone ever have an orgasm in their sleep? A few days ago I had spontaneous orgasms sitting in my car with Dale. I was fully dressed and frozen with wave after wave until I physically felt ill. Dale said he saw something on TV about a woman who would suddenly have an orgasm. Orgasms were great….thinking I will barf…not great. LOL
So I almost dream daily about the future ex-hubby. There used to be a sexual edge to my dreams about him. If I could control it to some degree, I would take the sexual dreams over the fighting dreams. Sometimes I dream I’m back in my house but I can’t get Heather to leave. Every now and then, Kelly drops into a dream and I’m still having to hear her yelling at me. She’s long gone now, except in my silly dreams.
I have no desire to ever be in a relationship with John again. I suppose it could just be the stress of dealing with the whole divorce process. I don’t let the dreams haunt me. I could keep a journal nearby to jot down notes that will help me remember. Maybe I’ll try that tonight and see what happens!
Counting orgasms,
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I watched a show on the discovery channel about a woman who had 100 orgasms a day. It was some nervous disease I think.