Thursday is preFriday

There’s 21 minutes until I have to be at work. I’m currently on the couch, listening to the rats chew the cardboard box in their cage. I have no motivation to get off the couch and go to work. I can usually delay the inevitable for another 10 minutes, maybe even 15.

I think about retiring a lot. At 54, it’s way earlier than I ever thought I would even think about retiring. The idea of just taking months for sailing trips is so appealing. A three month trip to the Bahamas sounds amazing.

As you can imagine, there are some problems with the idea of retiring early. They all have to do with 💰. I’ve been out of college 11 years, but I’m still paying on my student loan. There’s also this little thing called a mortgage.

But, Brian is ready to retire. My husband has had 30 years in public service. His current assignment is in a school and he’s has 10 years in and is definitely ready to go out.

I read stories written by people that live aboard their sailboat and how wonderful their life is, cutting the ties to land. I think I want this lifestyle. My husband certainly wants this lifestyle.

Can I handle living on a 39 foot sailboat for months at a time? Or will I go stir crazy? 🤪What do we do with our house? The cats? They cannot live on the boat. 

I still have about a year and a half before I hit 20 years at my job. It will all work out.

…10 minutes until start time. Good thing I just walk downstairs.

⛵️

~P.

Mr. Kinsley 7th Grade Writing

Who was your most influential teacher? Why?

Mr. Kinsley was an English teacher and he also taught creative writing. I started writing a journal in his class.

It was fun to decorate the covers and as I continued to do it for years later, my covers became more and more creative. Lots of boys names. 😂

He is the one that ignited my interest in writing and journaling. He was dedicated to teaching, driving from West Virginia to Pennsylvania. That or a bit crazy. 🤪

Thanks Mr. K!

Anchors & Oars

Where would you go on a shopping spree?

My husband, Brian and I, went to a boating meet and greet in Lancaster today. We are meeting people that sail on the Chesapeake Bay, with goals of making new boating friends.

At one point, everyone was talking about a store, called Anchors and Oars, basically an organized junkyard of sailboat parts and supplies.

She looks naked! @Hotspur39 on YouTube

Brian and I have been working hard on our sailboat. We have a YouTube channel now that I would love for people to check out. We only have about seven videos posted and none of them are terribly long, but we’re just starting the channel. You can find that on YouTube under @Hotspur39.

https://youtube.com/@svhotspur39?si=-QtHdQBWdsF5tHsa

So, with all the renovations, we’re doing to our boat, I would love to have a shopping spree at this sailboat yard, because no one’s manufacturing the parts for our boat anymore!

Spring cannot arrive soon enough!

Pattie ⛵️

Apples, Horseradish Cheese & Tomato Basil Crackers

What snack would you eat right now?

I’m just finishing up my snack, watching Rain Man with the hubby.

Great movie.

Had a busy day at home. Productive.

Balloons were popped. 😂🎈

It’s been cold and uninviting outside.

I’ll stick to inside.

🎈P.

WTF just happened in the USA

This week has been unlike any other in my life.

It went from having huge expectations of good things to come in the future, to a crashing reality of who is going to be the leader of our country.

I’m afraid for my democracy. I’m afraid for my rights as a woman.

I’m afraid for the rights of all people that are not exactly the “person” Trump expects them to be in our society.

I’m afraid.

P.

The FOOT Doctor

What was the last thing you searched for online? Why were you looking for it?

I googled podiatrist in my area. After suffering for over a year, I’ve determined the pain in my heel is not from the Achilles tendon rupture repair surgery.

I need my feet to not hurt! 😢 🦶

But, I also need to exercise. So frustrating.

~P.

Walking in the Hood

It’s just after 8 PM. My neighborhood is still busy with people mowing, rearranging the garage with the door open, and one’s even loading a U-Haul.

Gonna be down a neighbor soon. 👋

I’m just out trying to get my steps in because I’ve gotten chubby wubby and I’m letting it all hang free as I walked the hood.

Bras are over-rated.

I feel bugs biting me. 🦟 I hate them. Will never understand why they are needed. I’m constantly putting anti-itch cream on, and taking Benadryl.

Oh, my 🍏 apple tree looks nice this year!

I’m feeling good about my walk and actually would like to do a second loop but I can’t with the bugs.

I never started my workout tracker. 😭

Well, my body knows I walked…and was nibbled on by bugs I never see.

~Pattie

Ya know?

What is a word you feel that too many people use?

Maybe it’s because my husband says it to me so often. It seems like every other sentence he saying something to me. He ends up with, “you know what I mean?”

I just respond, “I do know what you mean” and let it at that. It’s not like he’s really looking for me to respond.

You know what I mean?

Pattie 😂

That stuff that keeps you awake

Don’t you hate not being able to sleep? When you lay there convincing your brain to just let things simmer down. I try to corral the random, unproductive, tangled, and sometimes obtrusive thoughts, and drift into dreamless sleep adding years to my life.

On occasion, I have weird dreams, most likely from the prescription meds I take TO fall asleep. It comes with a warning it can cause vivid dreams. I’m perfectly ok with that because sometimes I have orgasms. Whatever I’m dreaming is never sexual, but the result is a range of O’s from a blimp to one where my stomach cramps up trying to grasp wtf is going on.

And, if I fall asleep, thinking of something that might get me going, it never leads to any O fairy visits. So pure thoughts only to fall asleep by. 😂

Winning with the O’s,

~P.

Favorite Candy

What’s your favorite candy?

I’m going to put some real thought into this candy reflection. I have a lot of candy I really like but my favorite? That’s tough.

To nail it down on one candy, I would have to go with Dove’s dark chocolate. They are so smooth and delicious, melting in your mouth, and even come with a little inspirational message on the inside of the foil wrapper. How wonderful!? 🤤

Other candies, I enjoy would be snickers, Mary Jane’s, cowtails, Toblerone, scor bars, whatchamacallit, M&Ms, Reeses, and you know, I could just keep going on.

Might be easier to name the ones I don’t like. There’s one. Candy Corn 🤮

It’s just not candy. If you like it, you’re probably a serial killer.

🤣 Pattie